WHAT IS LOVE. PART1

1  Corinthians 13
4  Love  suffers  long  and  is  kind;  love  does  not  envy;  love  does  not  parade  itself,  is  not puffed up;
5  does  not behave rudely, does not seek its  own, is  not provoked, thinks no  evil;
6  does  not rejoice in  iniquity, but rejoices in  the truth;
7  bears  all things, believes all  things,  hopes  all  things, endures  all  things.
8 Love never fails

1Corinthians13 is God’s  commentary,  His description  of  love.  This  is  what  love  is  as far  as God  is  concerned.  If  God  was  to  show  up  at  church  today  this  is  how  He  would  be.  This is how He would look, talk, behave, relate and so forth. And because God is love, these 16 attributes that describe love also describe God.

“Love  suffers  long  and  is  kind;  love  does  not  envy;  love  does  not  parade  itself,  is  not puffed up”

1.  Love  suffers  long.
“Love is never tired of waiting” BBE

God  is  patient  with  us.  He  waits  long  and  He  never  gets  tired  of  waiting  for  us.  He  is content to wait without losing His temper or becoming unpleasant.  

2. Love is kind God  is  kind.   

He  is  not  rude,  mean  or  harsh  or  unkind.  He  is  gracious  to  us  even  when waiting  for  us.  He  is  courteous,  friendly,  generous,  gentle,  tender  and  warm  hearted. God is affectionate and is a very comfortable peaceful person. Peace is His nature.

3.  Love  does  not  envy

God  is  not  jealous.  When  we  are  jealous  we  are  never  operating  in  the  love  of  God.  he doesn’t  feel  resentful  when  we  prosper  and  do  well. 
Psalm35:27  tells  us  that  He  delights in our prosperity. Furthermore,  God  doesn’t  feel  jealous  when  someone  or  something  else  takes  our  focus away  from  Him.  He  can  handle  it.  He  is  not  overly  protective  and  insecure.  Jealousy  is not a godly attribute.

4.  Love  does  not  parade  itself.

“Love has no  high opinion  of itself”  BBE
“Love doesn’t  brag” WEB

He  is  not  boastful.  He  is  not  a  show  off.  GOD  IS  A  HUMBLE  GOD.  Humility  is  a  major  trait of  God.  Jesus  showed  us  the  humility  of  God.  He  came  to  this  earth  not  as  the  son  of  a king but as the son of a carpenter born in a manger instead of a palace.  Furthermore,  He  accepted  to  dwell  in  a  fallible,  corruptible  human  body.  And  even  then He  didn’t  choose  the  best  human  body.  He  was  not  handsome  or  macho  or  spectacular. He looked plain and ordinary.

“For  he  shall  grow  up  before  him  as  a  tender  plant,  and  as  a  root  out  of  a  dry  ground:  he hath  no  form  nor  comeliness;  and  when  we  shall  see  him,  there  is  no  beauty  that  we should desire him.” Isa53:2

5.  Love  is  not  puffed  up.
“love has no pride” BBE

God is not arrogant or conceited. He  doesn't  put  on  airs.  He  is  who  He  is.  He's  not  a  hypocrite.  He  is  not  like  most preachers who are pretenders and full of themselves. 

“does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil”

6.  Love  does  not  behave  unseemly.
“Acteth not unbecomingly” EB
“doesn’t behave itself inappropriately” WEB
“it is not rude (unmannerly) {and} does not act unbecomingly” AMP

He  is  never  rude.  Doesn’t  behave  inappropriately.    God  doesn’t  embarrass  us.  He doesn’t  behave  in  ways  that  are  not  consistent  with  established  standards  of  morality  or good  manners.  God  doesn’t  embarrass  us  or  act  in  ways  that  are  inappropriate.  And  yet there  are  several  ministers  and  prophets  today  who  make  it  their  job  to  embarrass people and bring shame to people. This is not godly.
Furthermore  many  times  most  of  us  don’t  have  good  manners  and  don’t  know  when certain behavior is inappropriate. Love has good manners.

7.  Love  seeketh  not  His  own
“it takes no thought for itself” BBE “seeketh not  her own things” EB
“doesn’t seek its own way” WEB
“Love  (God's  love  in  us)  does  not  insist  on  its  own  rights  {or}  its  own  way  {for}  it  is  not self-seeking” AMP

God is never selfish. He doesn't insist on His  own rights. This is  major  failing for most of us.
Prov13:10  tells  us  that  anytime  we  are  in  contention  or  strife  with  someone  else  it  is because we are operating in pride and self-centeredness. It is all  about  us.
I have to be treated this way, feel this  way, get this,  want  this,  my rights. We  depend  on  other  people  for  joy,  happiness  and  contentment.  This  is  not  how  God  is. God thinks of others and their needs first.

8.  Love  is  not  easily  provoked.
“it is  not quickly  made angry” BBE
“it is  not touchy {or} fretful  {or} resentful” AMP

God is not quick  to take  offense. He is  not touchy  feely. Many  of  us  are  easily  offended.  Because  someone  looked  at  you  in  a  certain  way,  spoke in  a  particular  tone  etc.  Many  of  us  are  unpredictable.  We  have  explosive  anger.  It doesn’t  take  too  much  to  offend  us  and  get  us  out  of  peace  and  harmony.  And  people fear us  and  are afraid of  our temper.  This is  very carnal,  selfish  and  ungodly.

God  is  not  like  this  at  all.  He  is  very  long  suffering.  It  is  very  difficult  to  provoke  Him  to anger.  He  doesn’t  lose  His  temper.  He  is  predictable  and  you  can  be  sure  that  at  all  times He is in perfect peace and harmony.

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